I have had it! I've had it! Enough is enough! Enough of being Mr. Niceguy. Enough of understanding y'all and your problems and your fears and your whateveristhatbothers you! Let me see, let me see... what would a not-nice-Bich say to people today?
Let me see ... some major problems humans have...
-small dicks ... everyone wants a bigger one. And I mean this in a very Lacanian sense ... it is not really real but then and again it is real thing we are talking about. So everyone wants a bigger one. Bigger than neighbor's, biggers than boss's, bigger than mine. Only I want to have the biggest one of them all ... so no chance for you
-overindulgence ... my feelings are hurt ... yada tada bada ... so big fuckin' deal... people are being dismembered as we speak - do you think their feelings are not hurt? Of course they are, only you don't hear it - you are too busy dealing with your past, present and future. You are too busy pitying your self to realize you are not the center of the universe.
-it's not fair! the world is just not fair .. I deserve more! OK, so you are right the world is not fair but why do YOU think that YOU deserve more? What have you done for the world to get more than someone else? The fact that others got more than you is a freak accidant in most cases but still what gives you the right to complain?
what you are talking about is quite similar to what I've been thinking...often times.
we could say that you forgot to mention that somethimes shit really happen, and people don't get what they deserve... but why mentioning?:)
it is in our nature to complain, demand, justify... simply, we're selfish.
so now i am turning all my energy to overrate ME stuff... thay say, that you dont make a good deed by giving money to a poor, if you do it to make you feel better... and thay also say (and i realised that myself very soon) that it is very hard to grow that much, to be able to give it just because you want it..
the rooth of all the actions we make, at the end turns to be ourselfs...
or am i making any sence?
grl&ljub
--bananica
you are making sense and you are right I did forget that sometimes life is plainly unfair. This post was mostly directed at those who complain constantly and without any desire to change their lives for better.
And I guess we do things for ourselves but it's nice to at least face the truth and admit it. It's not so much of a problem that we are all selfish, rather, the problem is that we are selfish yet pretend to be saints.
Sooo keep investing in yourself and hope to see you soon,
Love
jz
--JZ
